Sexual Love Making Positions To Last Longer In Bed: A Simple Premature Ejaculation Method That Works

Most guys want to last longer in bed to allow their lover extended orgasmic experiences. If you tend to come too soon, you will know the feeling that you get inside when you blow too soon. It’s not a very nice feeling at all. The look of disappointment on her face is devastating. Many women will dump a man who is bad in bed.

One of the easiest ways to make lovemaking last longer is pretty simple. If you change your lovemaking position, you will find that you have much more control. It is that simple. It is not a complicated method that takes ages to learn.

The Best Love Making and Sexual Positions to Overcome Premature Ejaculation.

The key to this method is body relaxation. You want a sex position that you can relax and let her to all the work. Any woman on top position is good for this. She can face you or turn and face your feet.

Just lie back and let her move her body and genitals over your penis. Do not try to thrust into her but instead just relax. Really enjoy the ride and the sensations moving though your body. Focus on the feelings and sensations in your body instead of a goal of an orgasm. She is in charge so forget about her pleasure. Let her be in control of her pleasure as you focus on your pleasure instead.

When you are on your back you will find that you become a lot more relaxed. If you take your attention to your body you can scan for any tension. Just send a message to relax that area and this will also help you maintain control.

Sex is about giving or receiving. Generally, a man likes to be in control and to give to his lover. A woman usually receives and surrenders to her man. Most women like a dominant man who leads them in sex.

One can reverse the roles in sex. Let her do you. Most women love to become dominate in sex now and then. This makes sex more interesting and adds variety. If you make love the same way each time, eventually you will make love less and less.

Another tip to help you control premature ejaculation is your breath. Ask your lover how you breathe close to when you come. Usually it will be short and fast. So you do the opposite.

Breathe slowly and deeply from your belly. Feel your belly expand on the in breath. Make a sound on the out breath. If you do this you will find that you will be able to control when you come.

The combination of a woman on top position, body relaxation and breath control can work wonders. I also suggest that you try some of these techniques when self pleasuring. If one learns control when masturbating, it is easy to transfer to actual lovemaking.

One can also ask your lover for help. The idea is to build up the sexual energy so you are close to coming in a woman on top position. Now take your attention to your body. Relax all areas. Take your attention to your breath. Make your breath slow and deep.

Ask your lover to stop her thrusting on your penis. When the sexual energy drops as well as the wish to come, she can start thrusting again.

One can practise this method again. You will have total control.

A woman’s wish for you to come inside her can also take most men over the edge. Tell her you want to learn control and most women will help you.